You have to Stand alone!

You don't get paid for the hour, you get paid for the value you bring to hour. It is the set of sails, not the direction of the wind that determines which way we will go.

Others may say" it is normal" not for you, because you are meant to be "above normal" (abnormal). Let others leave their future on someone else's hands, but not you.

If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will settle for the ordinary. If the building does not reject you then build the building.

Note this! there is something distinct in  you that I believe in. Yes you are born to win... If you slack off on a day of distress, your strength is small indeed says the book of proverb. Remember, you are not everybody you are somebody!!!
All the best.